Does a grown-assed woman really need daily affirmations?
Recent conversation with a family member reminded me of that especially when he insisted on calling me by the nickname that was, of course, a family term of endearment. Every time he called me c___ w____, I was reminded how the playground taunt brought home and shared at the dinner table became the family pet name for me because it’s love, Laura, nothing but love…except it wasn’t. At least for me it wasn’t. It hurt. It hurt a lot then…and (surprisingly because I am so far removed from that toxic swill most days) now. What can I say? I was emo when emo wasn’t cool which was probably why that endearment stuck and still tries to stick 45 years later.
Perhaps it isn’t so cool anymore for me to be emo…a middle aged woman like me.
Does a grown-assed woman, like me, really need to be reminded almost every day of her own personal truths?
My words, my personal truths look pretty amazing here on my wrist.
They’re shiny too.