let the joyous news spread throughout the land


Birthday week will now begin!

But that isn’t why I found the special plate before me this morning for breakfast.

No, my darling husband had decided that I needed to fuel up before my audition adventure up in Sacramento. Oh, and it IS the start of birthday week palooza.

I won’t lie, it has been a rough weekend for me. It’s mostly my own doing that brought it all on but the overwhelming stress and worry became just too much on Friday. Thank goodness for friends and a darling husband and hugs and 3 mile runs and long soaks in the hot tub and good food and wine…

and silly hipster babies…

and nutella-stained, freckle face smiles…

and the opportunity to share my words auditioning for Listen To Your Mother Sacramento. What a nurturing, encouraging experience that was! Thank you Margaret and Nichole for the opportunity!

 

 

booze-y and spicy and chocolate-ly


Three great tastes…at least in my humble opinion.

As promised, here is my contribution to the Jacquieros Mansion’s Pinterest Party. The original recipe and lovely, melt-in-your-mouth step by step photos can be found here.

6-8 mild chili peppers

spiced rum

200 grams of dark chocolate

mango flavored tea

First prepare the chilies. Using a small, sharp knife, cut a long slit down each chili. Now carefully remove the stems and seeds. Insert a joke about seeds and stems here if you have the humor of an adolescent boy. I used a pickle fork but you can use your finger to scoop out the seeds and stems…you might want to wear gloves and carefully wash your hands afterward…I’m just saying. This will reduce a lot of the heat. Part of me asks why but if you are sharing these delicious treats, other people might not be able to take that kind of heat.

To further reduce the heat…because some people really can’t take the heat…poach them for about two minutes in boiling water then strain. Rinse immediately in icy, cold water. No, that will not take away anymore heat.

Place your chilies into a clean jar or other container with a lid and pour enough spiced rum to cover those pretty, red beauties. Allow them to marinate for at least 12 hours.

Aren’t they pretty sitting there and marinating and stuff like that?

The chilies are filled with a mango tea-infused water ganache which is basically an emulsion. You will need about half of the chocolate and a half cup of hot tea. Melt your chocolate according to package directions. Once it is melted begin to add the hot tea one tablespoon at a time. Stir in each tablespoon thoroughly before adding another. The chocolate mixture might seize up…it did…but just keep stirring and adding a tablespoon at a time of the hot tea until you end up with a smooth, runny consistency. It took about six tablespoons for me to get to this point. This, my friends, is a ganache!

While the ganache cools a little, fish out the chilies and drain. I strained the rum with plans to use this hot peppers infused booze for some spicy cocktails in the future…YUM!

Fill a piping bag with the ganache, cut off the end and carefully pipe it in each of the chilies. Wipe away any excess chocolate and let these set for a couple of hours or stick them in the refrigerator to speed up the process.

After the ganache has set, melt the remaining chocolate and dip each pepper in, carefully coating them. Lay them on baking parchment or waxed paper to set…yes, more setting.

It’s good to set for a spell from time to time don’t you think?

Once the chocolate layer has set, peel the chilies from the parchment and trim off the excess chocolate…and you’re done!

Seriously yum!

I won’t lie, they do have a spicy kick. I think it is a combo of the rum and the peppers but combined with that dark chocolate this is a seriously, decadent treat…perhaps to share at a Super Bowl party.

Go ‘Niners!

of pinstrosities and other crimes against humanity


You know, there is only so much shit one can pin on Pinterest before one must actually do something about all those pins. Wear it, make it, eat it, drink it, do it. Please, do it…or you are just wasting time pinning way too much useless stuff.

And sometimes a girl just needs to enjoy a night with other girls, her sisters and daughters in arms. Let the guys howl at the moon.

The ladies gathered at the Jacqueiros Mansion wearing, making, eating and drinking that which they all have been pinning up on PInterest.

We arrived with yummy salads, cheesy pretzels, booze-y chocolate dipped and filled peppers, sangrias and other drinks (all recipes we discovered on Pinterest) ready to craft some craft ideas pinned on some of our Pinterest boards.

I came armed with the booze-y, chocolate-ly peppers and the spiced rum that they soaked in. Seriously yum with a spicy kick. More on that later.

There was so much yumminess. It’s a good thing I run, I’m just saying.

And there was so much craftiness…and stories shared…and laughter…and love…

and a few Pinstrosities…followed by even more laughter.

And once the girl-children were all tucked into bed, it was time to really let our hair down, enjoy some more wine, sangria or (for the brave) the booze-y, chocolate-ly peppers and play Cards Against Humanity.

Oh dear!

Best.

Game.

Ever.

And yes, one of the best nights shared with family and friends this year.

And what have YOU been doing with the shit you have been pinning on Pinterest?

 

 

party monster style


Of course everyone wonders how did the little monster, Fallon, celebrate her very first birthday…besides eating deep fried turkey with the family on her birthday/Thanksgiving Day.

You party monster style…DUH!

You party surrounded by your nearest and dearest family and friends who have adored you since even before you were born.

And you have monster cakes. Cupcakes for your guests…

and your very own monster cake.

It got a little awkward what with everyone WATCHING YOU EAT YOUR CAKE.

Really awkward…

But you power through because this IS your monster party and your monster cake.

And you soon enough you find yourself enjoying it in spite of the twenty pairs of eyes watching every single bit you take because this monster cake is so good and so is the sugar high.

So good in the tummy and all over the hands and all over the face…

and in the hair too.

It’s thirsty work my friends. Messy too.

But this little monster cleans up well.

for things that are good


Daniel: You know what I am thankful for today?

Mom: No, son. What are you thankful for.

Daniel: (pausing thoughtfully) For things that are good.

Daniel: Is that okay?

Mom: That is perfect.

This year, in spite of it’s many flaws, setbacks, disappointments and tears was indeed a year full of things that are good. And with Daniel reminding us all, how could we not celebrate together and give thanks?

For FaceTime with Zoë and the laughter that filled the Big Top while my kids talked face to face. Even better, we are thankful for the times that we can be face to face. But when we can’t, thank goodness for FaceTime!

For Thanksgiving Day five mile runs and mimosas in the hot tub after.

For family.

And for birthday girls.

And neighbors.

And the first ever Scarbormedaques Thanksgiving Celebration! It was good.

Complete with deep-fried turlkey…and it is true, once you enjoy deep-fried turkey you will never want for any other kind of turkey and baked ham and fabulous stuffing and sweet potato casserole and mashed potatoes and ham and teeny-tiny pies…

and brussels sprouts Caesar salad

The salad is indeed, truly delicious but a painstaking bitch to prepare if one does not have minions like Rachael Ray…I do not have minions.

But it was a feast

and a day enjoyed by all.

It was truly a day to gather together and celebrate all the things that are good and that we are all truly thankful for.

Thankfully we had someone to record the wonderful memories we all made together that day, at the very first Scarbormedaques Families Thanksgiving.

This week’s Focus 52 prompt is THANKFUL.

Every day may not be good…but there is something good in every day.