feeling brave, feeling bold

You know that moment where you look at your five circus clowns and see that, oh my goodness, four of them are grown ups, adults who drive and work and vote and you managed to nurture and care for them without maiming or damaging or killing them because they are fully grown ADULTS! Sure that fifth one is still a kid, fast approaching adolescence complete with eye rolls and exasperated sighs that he has already perfected. There’s still the chance of messing up with the parenting but four out of five. That’s pretty good. That’s like 80%.

I wonder what it would be using Common Core math? No, I really don’t.

But, yeah, I’m feeling like I am pretty good at nurturing and caring for living things right now. If the kids aren’t proof enough there is this cactus plant.

Ignore it for for months and months because you kind of forgot about it sitting on top of that bookcase and what does it do? It flowers and grows and it’s pretty.

And so feeling brave, feeling bold, I pick up some houseplants because I have a great track record caring for living things. How hard can it be to care for more?

Yeah, I’m a little worried too.


this week on the iPhone

I may not take as many pictures with my Canon as I used toand I should be taking more…still I manage to take pictures because there is always my iPhone close at hand and Instagram.

She really is a pretty little thing and not nearly as bendy as the haters say that she is.

Rain finally came to to the Valley and I did ask my darling husband if he would rather take the car into work in the Bay Area rather than the bike because I could easily get up at o’dark thirty to take Jodie to work and then go home to sleep until it was time to take Daniel to school. No big deal. Jodie would have a triple latte ready for me when it was time to pick her up.

No was his answer.

He got soaked.

Oh well!

The morning after the rain is the best when everything is so fresh and clean…except the mom-car.

Oh, and sunrises as I leave work in the early morning are the best because, yes, I worked! I worked callback which is even better!!

The sunrise view in my mirror reminds me that my day is done…as soon as I drop my son off to school.

This son, my favorite son, who every day, all the time reminds me how lucky I am to say that I am his mom!

But LITERALLY the most exciting thing happening under the Big Top this week was these salt and pepper grinders.


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all that matters

One day away from the month of March, a.k.a. my birthday month, I find myself forced to consider the fact that Jodie will be graduating in less than 90 some odd days! I don’t know the exact number of days. Ask her. She, no doubt, has a countdown going on. It’s snowballing I tell you and although she isn’t my first…she’s my 4th…I find myself trying to wrap my head around the inevitable.

Honestly parents of those young, totally dependent ones who steal your sleep, slow down and savor the diapers, the potty training, the teething, the snuggles and all of that. No really.

My youngest daughter is thisclose to graduating from high school and dancing on to the next big thing for herself. FAFSAs for her and her other sisters still in school have been filed. Jodie is finishing up assorted grant and scholarship applications. Her cap and gown has been ordered; and all the other Senior activities preceding graduation are coming up fast and furious. There’s no getting away from this reality. She and I both consider whether she wants to send out grad announcements or not. Honestly, we are just not feeling what the school has contracted to offer so we start looking elsewhere. It’s then that I remember one of my favorite cards I received from a dear friend over the holidays which was printed by Minted. I loved the design as well as the overall quality of the card. So I began to look through what they have to offer in card designs for graduation. So many lovely designs created by Minted’s community of independent designers, all easily customizable to suit what Jodie (and her parents) want to share with everyone. There are definitely a couple designs that would be perfect…and affordable too because AMDA and dancing shoes and all it takes to feed that dancer ain’t cheap. Narrowed down to a couple possibilities, I find myself distracted as I explore what else Minted has to offer because they offer so much, so much good design that is their seasonal cards, wedding paper and decor products, stationery, party decor and art.


Yes, beautiful art for your walls.

through the fog by R studio

Beautiful photography.

And Per Se by Sarah Brown


Happy Monster by Shasta Knight

KIds prints…great baby gift ideas.

Wood Grain Hearts by Max and Bunny

Prints that celebrate Love & Marriage…great wedding gift ideas.

Heart Snapshot Mix Photo Art

And virtually endless custom art designs, like this one, I would love to see hanging on the walls here under the Big Top.

Are you looking for something truly eclectic and original to hang on your walls? Definitely check out Minted. Added bonus, Minted loves Moms. They donate a portion of all art sales to Every Mother Counts.

I was invited by Minted to check out and share with you all some of my favorite unique art designs that they offer. In exchange I received a credit towards a purchase of my own. 

seven minutes of awesomeness

Mima! Look what I can do.

And with seemingly no effort what so ever, Hazel lifts her right leg holding on to her ankle straight up and just stands there.

Of course it is made all the more awesome because she is wearing my Oz 3D glasses.

Want to know how long I can hold my leg like this?

How long, Hazel?

Oh about seven minutes. Watch…one…two…three…four…five…six…seven.

She lets go and lowers her leg down.

Seven minutes, Mima! Pretty cool, huh?

Definitely. Just as cool as your timekeeping skills, Hazel.


And she skips off into the other room.

Equally awesome is Hazelwood where you will find a different take on wooden wall art.

From sarcastic and crass to lovely and sentimental, you won’t find this stuff at Target. Oh and they take custom orders too. 100% of the profits support Hazel’s participation on the dance competition team and her ability to stretch her leg like that for “seven minutes” or more.

weekend good

Not that I am bragging or anything, I am just sharing what has been good this weekend because that is so much better than me whining or bitching or moaning about what might have been bad this weekend (nothing).


Getting off night shift just in time to see the rain clouds rolling in which any night shift nurse will tell you means they will sleep well.

When a photo of your photo and how it got put on display and your name is on the front page of the paper. Added bonus is they spell your name right.

Punching more holes in the walls but not nearly as many because gallery ledges are awesome.

Bottling the Tears of Angels IPA.

Sampling this delicious treat because how can I possibly recommend Christina’s Cupcakes if I haven’t sampled them? They are damn tasty and yes, if you live in the 209 you need to order some.

At the Madden Fall Fair, I tasted a bit of The Rustic Puff handcrafted artisan marshmallows. All she had to say was to let the marshmallow melt in my coffee to enjoy the salted caramel deliciousness and I was sold.

Celebrating the first day of Fall as one does by turning on the oven and baking The Pioneer Woman’s amazing meatloaf. Thank goodness today wasn’t hotter than balls as it could be on any given Fall day here in the Central Valley.

But saving the best for last, as one almost always does, there is this.

On the left taken August 29 and on the right taken today, September 22. Yes the camera angles are all wrong and lack continuity but LOOK AT THE RULER MARKINGS!! YES, I AM SHOUTING!!! Those growing pains are real. We are loving human growth hormone therapy.

Have a great week y’all!