celebrating the one stuck in the middle

Because ever since she was a small child, she has reminded us of the fact that she is the forgotten middle child arguing with proof…a grandparent who literally has never remembered her birthday even when her parent reminds them…her oldest sister…her youngest brother…and for so many other reasons, we celebrate our brooding, aloof, “Slytherin of the siblings”, forgotten middle child because today is National Middle Child Day.

And why not have a day just for the one stuck in the middle of the family? Margaritas, hot dogs, and even mathematical expressions have their own special days. Why not have one day a year when we celebrate the joys and pains of being stuck in the middle because if we were to really understand the middle child we would appreciate the fact that it is the middle child whose role is actually wildly character-building in so many ways.

So here’s to the one who is lucky to have older siblings who have paved the way and showed mom and dad how things should be done…distracted mom and dad too…a lot. Here’s to the one who is more adaptable by nature…or actually says to hell with all this, I’m doing what I want; like when you potty trained yourself during the drama-trauma that was right before your baby sister was born. Perhaps I might never get you being one of those over-achieving, always trying to please every one, first born kids, but I can’t help but admire your quiet determination, your adaptability, your independence, your realism and all that is amazing about you, my child stuck in the middle of this family circus act.

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