Holidays, December just isn’t holidays and December without some the kind of stress that might make your head explode…or at last feel the need to pause and let out a loud, long primal scream…you just can’t believe how healing that can be sometimes…as long as you are not primally screaming in front of the kids…don’t,..just don’t. But yeah, it just isn’t December under The Big Top without some sort of stress that might either kill me or make me stronger or perhaps cause me to retreat into the back of my closet and sob just a little bit.
But sure, December has been good, mostly. A few minor headaches and WTFs scattered here and there over the last 14 days but, it’s been okay.
Then last night while driving home from Safeway, just FIVE MILES FROM HOME it happened. Smoke…so much smoke. Smoke billowing everywhere out of the mom-car.
But, it could have been worse?
That could have happened this morning while Daniel and I were driving down to Valley Children’s for his quarterly endocrinology visit. Now THAT would have been worse.
I told myself that all day long…especially after my darling husband texted me that it was going to be minimum $500-600 fix…MINIMUM.
And December is back as it should be!
But it could be worse I mutter to myself over and over and over again.
It could be. It has been. It usually is every December. At least it feels that way.
But this, this is pretty good.
Daniel has literally grown so much in the last five months that he is for the first time EVER plotting on the normal growth chart!
PEOPLE HE IS ON THE CHARTS!!!
Okay, fine, he is plotting on 1%ile of the growth curve of boys his age. But he is on the curve and out of 100 13 3/4 year old boys, he is taller than one of them…and I saw that kid at my son’s school awards assembly last month…literally. No, really, there is literally a 7th grade boy in his class who is shorter than Daniel…barely.
Yes, my car is broke down but my son is finally growing in a very good way and I am so unbelievably, ridiculously happy.
Thankfully, December and son’s endocrinologist tempers that glee because glee like that needs to be tempered because it is December.
Dr. K. informs us that as of January 31st, she is leaving the endocrine practice at Valley Children’s in Madera. We can stay and have Daniel start all over again with a new endocrinologist or we can follow Dr. K.
So we will no longer enjoy our two hour drive down to Madera 3-4 times a year with at least one guaranteed overnight stay?
We will now be driving 2 1/2 hours 3-4 times a year with at least one guaranteed overnight stay to Fresno as she joins the UCSF Pediatric Endocrinology faculty and practice out of Community Regional Medical Center.
It’s likely going to be time to consider the need for a new mom car soon.
Things could be worse. Things could be so much worse as so many past Decembers have proven. Standing in the lobby of Valley Children’s looking up at this great tree, as Daniel and I have done literally every December for the last five Decembers, I tell myself that I can really let myself get carried away with the stress of paying the $$$ to the mom car in December along with other December stuff and following Dr. K.’s practice after years of good and familiarity at Valley Children’s.
I really could.
Everyone else does on those days with some good and some bad and it is perfectly acceptable…especially when it is December.
But no. Today I am going to focus on this good, this incredible good that has never, ever been a reality for my son here under The Big Top. Today I will focus on the wonderful awesome that my son plots on the normal growth curve for boys.
ONE PERCENTILE FOR THE WIN, BITCHES!!!