Because it was fourteen years ago which means we have children who have no clue whatsoever what the date September 11 means to so many people even if life goes on and sometimes they ask why.
Originally published September 9, 2011
While watching, as a family, a 9-11 ten years later piece on tonight’s evening news:
Daniel: Why is everyone so sad on the news?
Mom: Well, everyone is remembering a terrible, scary day that happened ten years ago.
Daniel: What happened?
Mom: I’m not really sure why but there were some people who hated everything about the United States and one day they decided to attack our country. On the day that they attacked us almost 3,000 people in the United States died that day.
Daniel: (eyes widen) Wow! That is terrible. Was it scary?
Mom: Yes. Yes it was. It was a very scary day that day. It was also a very sad day. A very scary and sad day that we all stop and remember every year because so many people were killed that day.
Daniel: Did we catch those mean people?
Mom: We’ve tried. Our country went to war because of the attacks that day. We still are at war…for better or for worse…We caught some of them.
Mom: Yes, but now is a time to remember the people who died that day. There were so many people who were going home or going to work or going off on an adventure who had no idea that there were people who were at the same moment planning to kill them and planning to hurt the United States. Now is the time to stop and remember every single person who was killed that day. They are why people are sad and why people are talking about that day right now.
Daniel: (hugs me)
This is the very first conversation I have had with my son, who was born five months to the day after September 11, 2001.
How are you talking to your children about the attacks on September 11 and the aftermath?